Are you living in a Fairy Tale land of dreams?
Do you keep wishing and hoping that you will become wealthy and be showered with abundance?
It is wonderful if such a life is accessible to you. And it is sad if the reality of your life is the experience of a lack of money and a feeling of poverty. Even people with money may feel that they never have enough.
Each of us has our own personal interaction with our culture’s medium of exchange. A part of us loves to buy clothes, the latest technology, new cars, homes, travel and more. It is frustrating not to be able to participate in the abundance dream. Many people have developed an angry and desperate relationship with money.
As one middle-aged man expressed humorously in a delightful French accent, “I once had a relationship with money. She was very good to me. But we broke up. She left me!”
Too often money leaves you. The dollars seem to fly out the window, and we find our relationship with wealth is strained, if not broken. Riches elude us and no matter how hard we try, we don’t seem to build a lasting relationship.
How do you begin Manifesting Abundance?
Many of us have built a convoluted conception of wealth in our minds. We think of it as being outside of us and hard to get. We believe that money can only be earned through many hours of hard work. Yet, others live well on passive incomes. The wealthy hold large savings and investments and are able to travel and spend their resources easily. What is the difference? What can you do to participate in the dream?
The truth is: money is simply frozen green energy. That energy takes form in dollar bills, plastic cards and numbers on a spread sheet . Money is not really a mystery, yet the majority of people never seem to have enough.
Why are you stopped from participating in the great dream of abundance? Over the years and through a series of events, each of us develops beliefs that define our relationship to receiving money. We may have lost jobs and experienced investment losses. We may have borrowed against a future time when we hoped to be more financially secure. We are deeply in debt.
The questions is: How can you end the struggle and gain abundance?
The answer: You must change the beliefs that no longer serve you. We all gather beliefs. Words that have become phrases that we begin to believe are true. Those beliefs become the dictators of our mind. And we usually hold hundreds of opposing beliefs. Statements that conflict with each other in our psyche, which create turbulence in our lives.
Examples of opposing beliefs could be:
- “If I were rich, I would have to pay higher taxes.” vs “Rich people have a way to get around paying taxes.”
- “Rich people are often liked only for their money.” vs “I could treat my friends and family and we could have more fun.”
- “I couldn’t be spiritual if I were rich. vs “I could give money to build a beautiful place to worship, a hospital and or places for poor people to live.
Look closely. Do you have conflicting beliefs that are creating havoc in your life?
Are there parts-of-you undermining your efforts to succeed. I have found that at the same times, these various “keepers of our beliefs” think they are helping us. They are certain that the beliefs they guard and work hard to prove are helpful, valid and true!
Why should it matter what we believe?
Because each belief serves as powerful magnetic force. This force organizes patterns of thought, which attract the conditions, people and experiences that correspond with that belief. Those magnetic pattern (thoughts) influence your decisions regarding your actions, interactions and behavior. Therefore, beliefs become thoughts that dictate the type of events you experience and the people you meet.
Holding on to beliefs that no longer serve limits your life. The key is to integrate those limiting beliefs, so that you can eliminate the continuous disappointment and detours.
By working with your sub-personalities, you can discover what your they are trying to do for you by stopping the flow of wealth and success.
You can learn to integrate the opposing forces within you, and thus create a unified wholeness within your being. You can regain your full power to be all you can be!
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